A Little Bit About Me
*Pics will be revealed immediately to anyone I start speaking to. Please do not contact me if you have not uploaded a photo, have not completed your profile or are not aged 36-46. I am also not interested in connecting with anyone currently living or wanting to settle in Pakistan, Bangladesh or India*
Hello! I am a well presented, articulate, London-based, hard working professional who is passionate about experiencing life. I like to relax and have fun outside of work. I am travel-obsessive and thrive on experiencing new cultures and people. I am both mechanically and creatively minded with a passion for helping other people and I hope to be a positive influence on others.
I’m really not into debating politics or religion and probably wouldn’t match with those who constantly share these type of posts on their social media feeds or thrive on this subject of conversation. I have a peaceful outlook that likes to bring people together, rather than creating divide and I like to make the most of what I have, to make each day count.
I am quirky (but with traditional values at my core), family-oriented, loyal and friendly. I like warm weather, dislike rain, passionately loathe glitter and would say that tea is my kryptonite!
I am a bit of a foodie (+gym bunny) and enjoy cooking nutritious meals, gardening and music. I am somewhat of a tech geek, with a positive outlook on life, enjoying banter and laughter. Jumping out of a plane at 14,000ft and skydiving back down to earth for charity has probably been one of my craziest moments!!
What you see is what you get and I take care of my appearance in a natural way... so if you’re the materialistic type, looking for your partner to wear a full face of make up and dress in heavy blingy asian clothes/ gold jewellery then that’s just not me. My dress sense is chic, conservative, feminine and western. One day I might be brave enough to try and figure out how to wear a sari, maybe ;) 😆
I’m not Bengali or Pakistani or Indian so if you are restricted to marrying within a particular sect or based in one of these countries, please don’t connect with me. However, If I sound like your cup of tea, swipe and I'll stick the kettle on!!
What I Am Looking For
I'm looking for a traditional gentleman with emotional maturity, someone who has a positive mindset, who is also honest, trustworthy and loyal. Someone who is motivated and driven, with a sense of adventure, who doesn't take life too seriously, is genuinely nice, kind, calm, family-oriented, house-trained (!) and willing to share life's responsibilities (lazy folks need not apply)!
Professionals would be a likely natural match but I am open minded. I’m also looking for someone who is self-aware, reflective when required and looking to learn from life and self-improve over time. Wanting to give back and support others is also an admirable trait if you have it!
Just to be clear (as I’ve had some odd requests), I’m not looking for a hookup or for anyone who wishes to engage in disrespectful types of conversation. I’m not impressed by six packs, flashy cars or guys who laze around in tracksuit bottoms watching boxing (or other fight-related sport) and who are constantly eating takeaways or texting their mates every few seconds. I’m also not typically attracted to ‘street talk’ or slang and I’m a bit of a spelling and grammar enthusiast, so won’t really gel with someone who doesn’t construct semi-complete sentences at least :) I also won’t reply back to lazy folks who have not made the effort to complete their profile in a meaningful way. Please make the effort to stand out from the crowd and share some highlights of who you are!
If you are not aged 36-46 then I don’t think we would be compatible. I’m also not into beardy beards. 🧔🏻
That’s quite a list, right? If you’ve courageously made it to this point, drop me a note as I’d love to hear from you!