A Little Bit About Me
Let me start by saying I truly hope every one last of you finds what they are searching for and you're blessed with spouses who would go to the ends of the earth to make you happy.
We're all souls on a human journey making it through the ups and downs of life. We are all here to find the one that completes us and makes those ups more enjoyable and the downs less devastating. And possibly makes us parathas in the morning lol.
It's hard to describe myself especially when im an introvert. Im shy at first but come out of my shell when i get comfortable with people. I keep myself and try to do the best I can for the people around me. I am loyal to a fault. Some times I care too much and it ends up hurting me. If you been there you know what I'm talking about.
I come from well respected close knit family. Which seems to be getting bigger every year with a new niece or nephew. Soon ill be able to start a football team lol.
I have a mix of both traditional Asian and western values. Meaning I do things like dip samosas in tea jk. But for real i have done that (dont judge me!)
I would say i do have a decent sense of humour but I'm not the comedian of my family that title goes elsewhere. I'm very mature and have a code I live by but really im a kid at heart. I love playing on my ps4 but dont get the time nowadays. I'm also into my film and tv shows. Some of my fav shows are game of thrones, sons of anarchy, the flash, arrow, power to name a few. I also love my MCU movies, if you're a DC fan we might have some problems lol. I'm also a massive fan of rap and hip hop. Not the trash they release nowadays but more old school 80s and 90s and underground artists like immortal technique and lowkey who I've had the absolute pleasure of meeting multiple times and even spending a day with him back stage, which was one of the best days of my life.
I have a face like ice cube where I always look angry but in reality im soft as a teddy bear.
I love travelling I have been to pakistan(typical right?lol) Paris, Turkey, Egypt, new york. I would love to spend more time travelling and hope to do so with my future spouse with umrah/hajj being one of the destinations in sha Allah.
I also love to cook. My sister in laws always tell me my future wife is going to be a lucky lady. Now dont get me wrong I'm no gordan Ramsey but I can throw together a nice meal for the whole family.
I've been making some big changes in my life hence looking for a spouse. I feel im ready for the next chapter in this book we call life and I'm trying to improve myself as a person spiritually, mentally and physically. I try to pray as often as i can. I'm always respectful. I've also joined the gym recently and am working my way to my goal weight in sha Allah.
Id like to add if a guy happens to inbox you and you're not interested a polite message saying you're not interested would go along way rather than leaving it on read. It's kind of rude just reading it checking the profile and then not responding at all. Says alot more about you than your profile does if you do that.
What I Am Looking For
Some who first and foremost knows marriage isn't a fairy tale. There will be good times and there will be bad. And someone who knows its not going to be easy but they say the best things in life never come easy.
Someone who will treat my family like their family because I would treat her family like mine.
Someone who's personality shines like that stolen diamond on the crown jewels.
Attraction is also an important factor but looks will fade after all we are in this for a long haul.
I come from the school of thought where if something is broken we fix it and not throw it away. In the days of Instagram and snapchat we see what others have and want that instantly but in real life things take time and patience.
Someone who will support me through thick and thin just as i would for her.
Someone who will except I have flaws that she may not like but doesn't let the bad over shine the good. After all we're all sinners seeking redemption.
Someone who understand the role of a wife.
I 100% understand marriage is alot harder on the woman as she has to change and adapt to a whole new environment. Leaving her family and joining a new one while being thrown in the deep end. I'll always respect women who do that and make it work. Just know when you do that for me ill be the life raft you need to float.
If you would like to know more about me or have any questions please send a stamped addressed envelope to 1...... jk you know what to do.